Mystic heart

''We 'think' that we love, but love is not a thought, feeling, or emotion. It is beyond mind - love is the state of being that prevails when one realises their essence. Love is a transcendental state of mind. Only when we transcend what we think about others can we truly love them. This is art of relating, which creates beautiful connections, not just mundane relationships that drown under the waves of emotional storms and clouds of expectations.

Do you really know the person you claim to love? Have you seen and felt these in that human being: sacred life force within, truth in the eyes, purity of the consciousness ,and beauty of the heart?! You think that you know that person, but what you know is an image that you built up with your thoughts. Thoughts come from the storehouse of memory called past. You were not born with these thoughts. These thoughts were given to you by society, culture, and education in form of beliefs. All your thoughts signify the conditioning of mind - they are like clouds in the clear sky-like consciousness. What you think is right and good...

If you really want to love, you need to shed this conditioning - all your stagnant beliefs, opinions, labels, and perceptions. They are a burden that you have been carrying. It is not doing any good in the world, other than creating differences, discrimination and wars. This is mine, that is not mine, these are my fellowmen, those are not, this is good, that is bad. Such short life, such tiny beings in a vast magnificent universe and such a load of burden of thoughts! Life would be so much easier with acceptance of what is, rather than expecting what should be.

Let the thoughts go, let your mind be clear like the sky, open up the window to the mind that is your heart. May be, fresh air will come from emptiness of the space and bring in pure and fresh energy of the space that is love. Feed some positivity and wisdom to your mind, instead of same stale thoughts and beliefs. 

Live, don't just exist

See, don't just look

Listen, don't just hear

Accept, don't just expect!

As you shed your thoughts, you stop reducing other person to being a projection of your mind - a bundle of images and opinions. Then, you really see, know and feel the essence of the other. This connection of two beings in their essence is unconditional love.

Unconditional love means unconditional acceptance and unconditional compassion.

Unconditional love means acceptance of the uniqueness of the other person. The divine energy of the universe manifests in various forms and each form is a unique expression and manifestation of divine. Thus, everyone is a different, yet perfect aspect. Acceptance of totality of the universe brings acceptance of uniqueness of each form. This is respect for all life and sanctity of divine energy that runs this universe. Accepting other person and enjoying the differences brings joy to life. 

Learn to accept other's choices, responses, gestures, and ways of expression. Instead of imposing your choices and judgements or expecting them to behave, act or respond in a desired way, be gracious enough to respect them as unique human beings and accept them the way they are. 

This does not imply that one cannot express their desires to a partner, but think over what really is a necessity and what is a mere imposition and stubbornness. Express what you want to express but do it with love without demeaning or blaming. Nobody is a mind-reader. Moreover mind is always fluctuating - thoughts keep changing and all desires/expectations are nothing but thoughts. Thoughts come and go, but love stays. That brings us to unconditional compassion.

Unconditional compassion means to be present to the love in a relationship even in moments of separation, disagreement or conflict and being kind, understanding, and patient. To prove righteousness all the time leads to dead relationships that cause suffocation and pain.

There will be moments of anger, hurt, pain, conflict, but you can choose to look beyond what is happening and be present to what is - the bigger picture that is love. 

Forgive whom you have to forgive

Let go of what you have to let go

Still your mind 

Open your heart

Let it fly..

Let it look into another heart 

Let it connect to another soul

Let it love...

Let it be kind and compassionate

Let it be caring and giving

Let it be accepting and understanding

Heart is all this and much more

If you let it be...

If you really love someone, set them free from your expectations, judgements, labels and prejudices. Whether they come back to you or not, they will remember you with a smile and you, my dear friend, will have peace of mind, joy in heart, and clarity of consciousness. This state of being is love and being love is all that matters. Everything else comes and goes as we manifest and dissolve back into the eternity of space.''

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